Dominant Mistress

Many men fantasize about having a steamy encounter with a dominant Mistress and wanting to be dominated is nothing new and certainly nothing unusual. Indeed both men and women get a kick from being submissive. From light verbal control right through to extreme sado-masochism or the desire for full on 24/7 slavery, the role of a dominant Mistress is varied.

The desire to be dominated by a beautiful dominatrix is a common fantasy amongst both men and lesbian or bisexual women. The feeling of surrendering control can be quite liberating and extremely exciting. It is a myth that submissives are generally door-mat types, indeed, submissives are often in extremely high pressure jobs or in positions of relative power and are used to, in their everyday lives, making decisions and being the dominant one. For some, to escape this, just for a few hours is enough to return them to equilibrium.

Bondage and Domination are often referred to as BDSM or D&S and loosely translate into a desire to either dominate and control or to be dominated and controlled. There are varying levels of BDSM 'play' and whilst sexual in nature, sex is rarely the overall objective. BDSM or D&S play involve many elements, commonly including; verbal abuse, humiliation, bondage, control, spanking, whipping, caning and so on.

Indeed sometimes physical contact is not even necessary (or it can be purposely withheld as a way of controlling the submissive or as punishment) and whilst BDSM is possible in many guises (i.e via webcams, instant messaging, over the telephone etc) the most fulfilling service is one where submissive and dominant are face to face, or should that be face to foot?

For some, they get a kick out of verbal or more subtle control mechanisms. Training is often involved to condition the submissive (or 'bottom) into behaving or responding a certain way based on a command or action from the dominant. In other cases it can be much more physical and intense. For submissives who are also masochists, then this may take the form of an intense flogging whilst restrained; often difficult to comprehend as pleasurable to 'Vanilla' folk, for a masochistic submissive a flogging can cause intense feelings of pleasure leading to the universally recognized spiritual state often referred to as 'Sub Space'.

Where physical restraint and extreme sensation play are concerned it is vitally important that the dominant is completely trustworthy, adheres to the 'safe, sane and consensual' concept and is skilled and experienced in what they are doing. For a submissive it is no fun when an inexperienced dominant or 'top' plays with them and for example goes too fast too soon, causing real pain instead of the more sensual pleasure-pain sought. A skilled dominant Mistress will never push you physically or mentally further than you are willing to go; working with you to increase your sexual and indeed spiritual satisfaction.

How to find a Dominant Mistress

Finding a dominant mistress can be tough, especially if you are new to the scene, have not played before (and therefore are unsure as to exactly what you want) or if you don't know where to look. Mistress Dion has been a professional dominatrix for many years and is a truly skilled and sensual Dominant Mistress. Whoever is under her control, she will always be listening to you as well as checking on your well being. Mistress Dion adores intense sessions but understands that there is no real intensity without trust or communication.

If you displease Mistress Dion then her mood & demeanor can change at the blink of an eye. However, if you please her, you will be well rewarded. She caters for novices, right up to the more experienced extreme players among you. If you are new to the scene, be sure that you are in safe hands and that your limits will be very well respected. However, dominant Mistress Dion encourages on subsequent sessions, the pushing of those limits. Without question you will have the use of an agreed safe word. If you are experienced player of the BDSM scene, you will already know that it is quite a journey. Mistress Dion will therefore push you to find out more about yourself and take you even further along that dark distant passage.

Mistress Dion is based in Maidstone Kent and has her own fully equipped dungeon. You can find out more and contact her here